cheating in love

case 3

he met her in a party. she was gorgeous. he approached her and started a conversation. he started dating her and liked her company.
after spending sometime together he started feeling very mushy.
the good days began. the best part of life began. late night talks, promises, swears and ice cream treats and even gifts.
faith gained on both the sides.
now they went physical. both had the best time of their life. everytime was a new pleasure....

time passed. just like the way you feel for your new car after some months or how the tea tastes you when just had a candy. its tasteless.

he doesnt enjoy her anymore. as he feels saturated. he wants something new may be for an hour a day to keep his life exciting.
he starts dating someone else secretly and now the old one sounds boring.
late night talks are cut to minutes and minutes into long arguments of complain and ignorance.

the more they fight, the more he feels close the new girl.
he wants to tell the old one how he feels now but is afraid of breaking her heart.
he hides from new one and lives in stress.

he doesnt want to break her heart and carry a guilt in him for the rest of his life.
and if he doesnt tell her he is actually feeling more guilt about it.

the point is even if he lives the last one, can he leave that guilt.
or even if he goes back to her can he get the same thrill back. the thrill which he had in him the day he met her for the first time.

can he feel the same about her. can he be refreshed and remove all experiences from his mind. so that he can feel the same thrill in his mind every time he meets her.

if it happens then nothing like that. because the other option seems useless. today he is looking for other option tommorow he will look for another option. or there is a possiblity that the girl will look for another option as she also feels that the thrill is missing.

sometimes in such cases i have seen. the boy develops are fear in his heart that if he has cheated a girl in past. why cant his present partner cheat on him. this fear leads towards stress and suspect. it further lead the other partner to cheat.

his mind can be reprogrammed. the way his mind learned in the same pattern his mind can unlearn also.
he can feel the same excitement once again with this life partner.

he just need to be ready to have it back..