read minds!

communication is 24x7 process. you cannot NOT communicate.
we communicate even when we dont communicate delibrately.
it can be in any form a smile, a silence or even a stare.
ignorance too is a form of communication. remember the last time your parents got upset with you. they uttered no word still you could sense it.
we have a tendency of evaluating people with on their behavior whereas we analyze ourselves on our intentions.
behavior is something which is visible on screen the actual programming takes place in the CPU i.e. mind.
nothing happens for no reason. everything happens with a reason.even when we utter a sentence there is a reason behind it.
a thought that provokes us to speak.
kids judge their parents on their behavior but we must understand the underlying intention.
even a thief assumes his intention to be nice. he assumes that he will steal and by this he will make his family happy. so for him, his intention is just too good.

when you start judging others with their intention it will give you a new perspective to understand others.
then by asking some question you can always get to know what is in their mind.

try this...a boy is driving too fast and then he comes behind your car and stats blowing horn.
you surely will feel irritated.
you will assume that he is just showing or is very impatient
you might even pass a judgment calling him a fool or stupid.

alright lets change the situation.
imagine you were that boy, in what circumstances you would have behaved like that.
you will say "when i am in hurry"
i need to take my mother to an hospital or even when i want to access washroom as soon as possible.

wow, now just assume a similar situation for that man, your irritation will fade away you might even give him a side assuming he will piss in his pants else...

try this intention on your relations it will give a new light..
prince gera